Sunday, April 21, 2013

The right one

Have you ever been into all these situation? If yes, what would be your ultimate choice?
Its about a girl meeting different types of guys, which all led to different experience and feeling.
Here it goes...

The first guy, lets call him.. Guy A. Everyone must have a bottom line that you've set for your "potential partner" or partner. He must not be a convict for instance. I am sure that you have your own expectation and definitely different people will have different "rules". So, the girl actually meet someone which totally break all her expectation, everything goes just far beyond the bottom line. But things turn out unexpectedly, instead of being loathe and sick of what he does, the girl found a way to just cope with it naturally. Though she does not agree with it. Of course there must be a reason behind which Guy A is a super optimism, affirmative and cheerful person. The girl can easily be happy for the whole day just because of one joke that made by Guy A. Guy A is like someone who born to bring the happiness for everyone, not just the girl but everyone around. Being with him the girl doesn't really need to worried what to do to impress him. Everything go really casual and simple but yet happy.

The second guy, Guy B. He was everything that the girl dream of. Education, appearance, height and literally everything. One of the most special thing of this guy was whenever he meets her, a lot of situation happened like those drama scenario which of course the girl totally obsessed with these. Being with Guy B isn't that casual compare to Guy A, but it is clear enough that making this choice wouldn't go wrong.. Even if its happened, it wouldn't be super wrong.. Guy B was a nearly perfect guy for the girl, he has an clear and practical idea of his future, working hard to achieve it, mature enough to take care of her. He provides a sense of secure in a way that whenever she needs some advice or suggestion, he will be the right one to refer to. Not all the time, but most of the time. Relatively, the interaction will be just slightly solemn compare to Guy A.

Guy C. Compare to Guy A and Guy B, he does not have much point to make the girl fall for him. But as a friend it was nice to just hang out and have fun. The girl dress up and behave all depends on the mood. Its not that Guy C was that bad but just.. feeling perhaps? Among all, he has the highest ability to provides all the materially needs.. at least for now. In terms of happiness level, Guy A is those kind who can make joke everywhere from daily life and conversation. As for Guy C maybe he will tell joke instead of making joke. To be clearer, Guy C wasn't a bad choice but maybe due to different preference or hobbies, it was slightly harder to find interest in common which sort of reduce the spark of the relationship.

So ladies and gentleman, which one will be your choice? 

Well.. in real life, you'll meet a lot of different people everywhere, everyday. You are definitely lucky enough if you have so many choices in hand. But the thing is not everyone you met you can love. I mean.. like maybe due to religion, citizen, age or just simple enough that he or she already being in a relationship.. Of course, if you guys are meant to be, things that i stated just now will not be an obstacle.. But just trust me thou, there are a lot of other reason where you cannot love the person..

So.. if you met someone you love and you can love, go ahead for it.. Be brave! Because once it past, you'll never know who and until when you'll meet the next one that can actually make your heartbeat accelerate, or make you cry like you've lost the whole world. 

XoXo! Good luck