Monday, July 16, 2012

Dependable

Its an interesting topic that i have learn from ABB lecture today and it actually motivate me to blog because i don't want to forgot about this scene in my life.. Something to do with IT but he links to life.. Words cant describe how much i love this lecture..  
We've learn about dependable system.. and lets define dependable as in a dependable friend! 

Some student answer: 
~ dependable refers to trust. But trust is a big word to said.. Somebody you trust, may just do something bad behind you.. and u didn't know.. And how do you trust a person? Someone answer that he or she will keeps your secret very well.. However, if the he or she actually spreading your secret to someone else.. you wont know also.. So this answer is not totally correct. 

So.. there are many more answer, you can think your own answer now as well! 

ABB saids that there is one statement from spider man that he will never ever forgot : 
I can save the world ten times better, but i am always on my own when i met problems


The memorable scene like what we always saw in the movies, the good guy helps a lot of people and he don't want any repay.. So generous, so kind.. YET, it only happens in the movie.. When you come to real life, it just doesn't work that way.. For instance, do you think rich and successful people like Steve Jobs and Bill Gates are a good people? *its a long story to discuss, ask me personally if you want to know more =)*

Come backs to the main topic, there are actually 4 component under the point of Dependable in our slides, which is available, reliable, safe and secure. But the most simplest way to define dependable is.. 
The people who are always there for you..  
It is so simple answer, but is so true~ 

Well, we all have friends, girl friend boy friend good friend and what so ever.. Some people do have really a lot a lot of friends.. But a dependable friend is he or she will always be there for you when you need them.. Maybe just a call without begging and struggling all over, you will just got supported from him or her.. 

Have you met someone like this in your life? We have always thinking what are the best condition of guy like academic bla bla bla.. and of course dependable.. i've always said someone is dependable but... after today.. i finally know how to determine whether he or she is dependable or not and who is dependable in my life.. 

For instance, if you have to borrow money, just call the real friend and he or she will straight said: Yes, no problem.. You might think is a bit risky to do like this but for real friend, he or she trusted on you that you won't just run away with that money and for you yourself will also pay back him asap.. 

So how do we trust someone? have you ever think of this question? Basically is almost the same way to define, but is just that trust is a really big word... It could be break and gone anytime.. So we use the word DEPENDABLE...

Here comes to the end of this post. If you have one real friend who fulfilled the statement i said above, you are one of the most lucky person in the world.. 

Friday, July 6, 2012

The water drops on the lotus leaf

"It doesn't matter whether he likes you or not..
It is matter whether you like yourself or not..
If you sincerely love yourself, you won't be affected by his appraisal towards you..
You should know that you are definitely not who you are in his mind that full of biased to you..
So it doesn't matter at all whether how he going to judge you.. 
It would not depreciate the real value of yourself.. 
Hence, take his apathy eyes and sarcasm speech as a drops of water on the lotus leaf, it can't be fixed and remain...
By giving it a smile, let the water drops gently rolled down from the lotus leaf.. "

When you step out to the society, the world is actually cruel.. Anyone that seems close to you will try to hurt you and gained benefits through it.. It is not only happened in the working life, it also possible to occur even when we are studying..

In my own opinion, the "He" in the article above does not literally meant for a guy... It means as everyone as in the one that hurts you.. It is so common that there are people who loves to hurts others no matter it is unintentional or purposely and eventually causes others had a bad day.



Sometimes it might also affect our self confidence, opinion, creativity and stuff... So people.. like what the article above wrote.. just give him a smile...and let it go instead!!