Kind and Nice

Months ago, ABB has told us about a story of being "kind and nice" can actually change your whole life. Unfortunately i couldn't recall the story neither my friends.. That's why i didn't blog anything about it but the phrase "being kind and nice" is keep on linger in my mind..

Nice guy T-shirt

Today i can finally blog about it and i guess i totally get what is it really mean. When i first heard, i knew it is right but i couldn't feel how it will actually affect my life. But it actually does. 

Days ago i went to the admin center and ask some information regarding study abroad. So when i wanted to ask an Indian guy which i have met him before, he pass me to another person who usually deal with all this kind of matter.

So i asked is it possible for me to go to state if i were considering study abroad. The reason i ask is because the whole course that i am taking is UK based.

: "no, i don't encourage you to do so especially its for final year." (she answered) Because the system is  totally different and the subject might be different as well. 

: "aww.. ok.. what about Canada?"

: " Canada is running the same system based with US. So we wouldn't recommend you to do so"

: " But University of the Fraser Valley is one of the list in the partnership with APU, so i thought..."

: " Yes it is, but we don't recommend" 

: "alright.. thanks"

After that i wanted to ask about the PTPTN ((National Higher Education Fund Corporation) (t is responsible for giving study loans to students pursuing tertiary education in Malaysia) stuff and she pass me to another person. And the Indian guy were there as well. Anyway, the answer i got from the PTPTN guy is i have to call the office or visit them personally for more information. 

"alright.. thanks" (from me)

Then i was about to leave and the Indian guy follow me. He ask what the ladies told me just now? i said it is kinda impossible for me to abroad to the states and what not... 

Then he was just kind and nice enough to encourage me to find out myself. He suggest me that i can actually send email to the university that i looking for and work it out.. And he even explain to me that he doesn't mean to pass me to another person is just that the ladies is more familiar with these stuff. 

So the thing is, he is just an admin which he can totally ignore me and watch me left but why would he so concern on the result i got from others? I told him that going to States is my first choice and even though the whole office were kind a shot me down but he is the only one to ask me to try on myself and work things out.

If wasn't him, i would probably had a really really bad day.. but now at least he give me some hope.. i am being so grateful for his advice.. this is not the first time in fact.. i really appreciate it a lot even though we only met for less than 4 times?

Being nice to people can change their day.. And when you see people got your encouragement and being alive or hold faith again will make yourself happy either.. So don't be hesitate of being helpful, kind and nice..

You might ask... so how it actually affect your life? Is by treating others nice and kind as well. You will not only get happiness from others treating you nice but you will also feel the world is better when you treat others nice as well.

You might said i overdraw the picture but try it out!! Just start from little things like said Hi to the cashier or someone you really hate before.. Miracle will happen!! "ok.. a little exaggerated"

Being nice will lead you to a greater personal success!