Adult Transmutation

I'm officially turning 21 in a few months times later and i guess today I'll share about some stories about stepping on adult-to-be life. My mum has once said our viewpoint and mentality will be changing a lot every year. I agreed and aspect gradual changes, but surprisingly changes happened in just a short amount of time and more than what i've aspect. 

In general, we've been taught clearly what's right or wrong during the earlier stage. So, black and white are pretty clear in the world we exist. But as you grow older, "the grey" begin to enter. You'll be facing a lot of situation where there is no right or wrong. All sort of "grey zone" problem are the most  annoying one because either one will lead you to a totally different path and yet there is no absolute in any of the options. 

Also, i've often heard people said its harder to get a relationship as you grow older. From what i've observed, i guess one of the reason is because as we grow older, we are getting to know ourself better at the same time. Not necessary referring to higher demand, but the more we know what exactly suitable for us, it creates more obstacle at the same time.

Imagine people as a semicircular. While we're young, we're semicircular with smoother surface which we can easily find the other half as long as it achieve certain conditions. But as we grow older, problems and life we're dealing with everyday tends to creates a rough surface. The rough surface isn't indicating negative stuff, but a clearer vision about what suit us the best in the long run. Hence, this is where people find it challenging to match with the other semicircular to form a perfect circle. 

Everyone wish to stay young forever but growing elder is something we can't avoid. Even if you do intend to avoid doing things or acting like an adult, some responsibilities will come to you naturally and you'll have to learn to bear the burden. Well, if you're fortune enough, you can avoid facing that later but i'm pretty sure thats not gonna be forever. 

Anyway, it isn't all bad growing as an adult. You will be offering more chances to take in charge of your own life. When we're younger, we used to think the schools is rights, our parent is rights but in truth, you don't live for them, you live for who you are. So, do not be afraid thou its not a easy journey ahead. Embrace yourself, stay focus, and becoming a better person than who you are yesterday. Do whatever makes you happy and getaway from all the negative stuff and people. Everything will eventually falling in to the right place. 

I hope it does inspire you a little. 

Good Luck everyone!