Thursday, November 13, 2014

A City of Love

The longer i been abroad, the more real cases and story i heard or happened surrounding "LOVE".

Yea, one of the most common topic globally and even the locals here were facing the same problems. 

I've known people that been abroad here and met the someone for just a week and they've become couple. Or.. been here for just less than two months facing problems with their current relationship. Some of them are in two different countries while some just two different city in UK. 

Some just dreaming they will meet the right one in the new city they live. 

I do understand some of the people here generally desperate for love because of the new environment and you just wish to have someone by your side all the time. Cause as i mentioned before, study abroad is pretty much about independent in every single aspect. 

But the fundamental issue here I found is people don't have a clear minded about what they really want and facing all sorts of unnecessary dilemma. If you clearly know what you're looking for on the other individual, what direction of life you're heading to, things can't get this complicated nor simple. 

Don't take anyone for granted nor thinking that you don't deserve something better. Rather being single than simply finding someone as a substitution and aspecting everything is gonna comes to an end after the whole semester. I would rather just have one right one than having a multiple. 

Not judging anyone here stepping too fast into a relationship, i do believe some of them will work out perfectly fine. 

Just focus on whatever you should focusing and don't forget what was the very first point you came here, thousand miles away from home.

Grey Street, Newcastle Upon Tyne

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