Dependable

Its an interesting topic that i have learn from ABB lecture today and it actually motivate me to blog because i don't want to forgot about this scene in my life.. Something to do with IT but he links to life.. Words cant describe how much i love this lecture..  

We've learn about dependable system.. and lets define dependable as in a dependable friend! 

Some student answer: 

~ dependable refers to trust. But trust is a big word to said.. Somebody you trust, may just do something bad behind you.. and u didn't know.. And how do you trust a person? Someone answer that he or she will keeps your secret very well.. However, if the he or she actually spreading your secret to someone else.. you wont know also.. So this answer is not totally correct. 

So.. there are many more answer, you can think your own answer now as well! 

ABB saids that there is one statement from spider man that he will never ever forgot : 

I can save the world ten times better, but i am always on my own when i met problems

The memorable scene like what we always saw in the movies, the good guy helps a lot of people and he don't want any repay.. So generous, so kind.. YET, it only happens in the movie.. When you come to real life, it just doesn't work that way.. For instance, do you think rich and successful people like Steve Jobs and Bill Gates are a good people? *its a long story to discuss, ask me personally if you want to know more =)*

Come backs to the main topic, there are actually 4 component under the point of Dependable in our slides, which is available, reliable, safe and secure. But the most simplest way to define dependable is.. 

The people who are always there for you..  

It is so simple answer, but is so true~ 

Well, we all have friends, girl friend boy friend good friend and what so ever.. Some people do have really a lot a lot of friends.. But a dependable friend is he or she will always be there for you when you need them.. Maybe just a call without begging and struggling all over, you will just got supported from him or her.. 

Have you met someone like this in your life? We have always thinking what are the best condition of guy like academic bla bla bla.. and of course dependable.. i've always said someone is dependable but... after today.. i finally know how to determine whether he or she is dependable or not and who is dependable in my life.. 

For instance, if you have to borrow money, just call the real friend and he or she will straight said: Yes, no problem.. You might think is a bit risky to do like this but for real friend, he or she trusted on you that you won't just run away with that money and for you yourself will also pay back him asap.. 

So how do we trust someone? have you ever think of this question? Basically is almost the same way to define, but is just that trust is a really big word... It could be break and gone anytime.. So we use the word DEPENDABLE...

Here comes to the end of this post. If you have one real friend who fulfilled the statement i said above, you are one of the most lucky person in the world.. 

The water drops on the lotus leaf

"It doesn't matter whether he likes you or not..

It is matter whether you like yourself or not..

If you sincerely love yourself, you won't be affected by his appraisal towards you..

You should know that you are definitely not who you are in his mind that full of biased to you..

So it doesn't matter at all whether how he going to judge you.. 

It would not depreciate the real value of yourself.. 

Hence, take his apathy eyes and sarcasm speech as a drops of water on the lotus leaf, it can't be fixed and remain...

By giving it a smile, let the water drops gently rolled down from the lotus leaf.. "

When you step out to the society, the world is actually cruel.. Anyone that seems close to you will try to hurt you and gained benefits through it.. It is not only happened in the working life, it also possible to occur even when we are studying..

In my own opinion, the "He" in the article above does not literally meant for a guy... It means as everyone as in the one that hurts you.. It is so common that there are people who loves to hurts others no matter it is unintentional or purposely and eventually causes others had a bad day.

Sometimes it might also affect our self confidence, opinion, creativity and stuff... So people.. like what the article above wrote.. just give him a smile...and let it go instead!!

Justine Birthday Part 2

Part 2 is all about colleagues in foundation! Its really hard for us to gather because our college has separated business and IT student into two different place.. So its been a while where i can meet all my old buddy... 

Justine didn't aspect she will got the second cake because the guys all hide it in the corner and cover it with many bags.. =D

When i arrived, LKS ask me to buy a drink with Justine and they start open and put on candle all those..

Birthday Girl JusJus

This is Gary!! He is the superman among us because he can always done his assignment in a very short period of time.. Like the moment teacher give assignment, he will start doing it on that day.. There is no procrastination in his whole life! Sometimes i will feel stress cause he do it very fast but is good at the same time because he will motivate the whole group.. People are all "gia su".. haha.. 

Btw, he is also the one who bought the cake!! Well done lei!! the cake is  very delicious!  

Tada... The people i miss a lot!! My foundation classmate~ 

We actually spend quite sometime to think how to cut the cake so that everyone can have it...haha.. TQ Justine!

While Justine is cutting the cake, look what his hubby doing...

Only know Eat!! *no wonder justine keep control him from gaining more fats!*

Jordan and YowChun! This picture is really precious lei.. cause whenever we having snacks or those fast food thing, YowChun (the one with blue shirt) always said calories and all those healthy terms.. Now he said because of Justine so he eat the cake.. haha.. he do reject it at first..

Justine and HanHong! Hanhong is the top student among us.. He kind a knew everything.. I have to thanks him a lot for the past year lei.. They use to called me as a mosquitoes to HH because there is one time, Me and HH skype from i think from around 7,8, or 10 we skype till 8 early in the morning for assignment purpose. And he help me a lot in all kind a assignment especially in those IT subject because he is the only one who sleep very late and start working at night. Due to this common, i always bother him when i having trouble with my assignment.

Me and HanHong~

A Pic of me for that day!

Mr Stanley here! He is another one who also did help a lot in the pass year. But i think he mostly help XQ more because they sleep early. Haha.. But still whenever there is a problem, as long as i did ask either of them, they will help me to solve it anytime even they are gaming or what so ever.. This is why they meant a lot to me!! =D

YowChun Me and Stanley!

Mr Sanjeev and YC!

Me and the Birthday girl!

Noob stuff they did for the day.. Mr Stanley said it looks like down syndrome.. HAHA! 

Mr SengPoh! He is going to be famous soon because he is currently in a relationship with someone really FAMOUS! Stalk his FB if u want to know more.. =) 

Playing around with the new iPad~

Shiva Sanjeev YC! Shiva is the one who stand up. His famous words are 

Babi sial

Makan sial 

Calling me indo maid

The Joker among us!

Jus and KS!

Epic picture of the day! I just simply snap on them while they are chatting around but Nandha & Sanjeev there is so dark!! haha... Swear to god this pic are snap and posted without any effect and edit..

Mr SengPoh

Me and Mr Gary

Mr Stanley and Me

At the end of the gathering, Justine suddenly take out a thing and give it to me said that is my birthday gift... LOL.. So paisei lei.. cause until now i haven give her birthday present.. >.<".. 

Thank you JUSTINE!!

For those who don't know me well, i were addicted to flora stuff now.. my bed sheet cover, note book, file, cloths..... are all with flora.. haha... So now i have one more stuff with printed rose! Thank you Jus! 

My very first birthday present! *even though my birthday is on 25th*

Justine Birthday!

JUSTINE LOH had her very first Barbecue Night for her 19 Birthday!! All the planning has been done by her very good boy Kaisin... I think she is very happy because she keep telling me that is been few year she don't have best friend to celebrate with her already.. *aww~ don't so emo la!!*

There is one thing i really one to point out... Her fussy boy arr... actually keep texting me and scare i cant come... Actually i just want him to ask more college people to join la!! Come on Lee Kai Sin~

While waiting they all to pick me up... =P

Here to thanks kaisin's friend to pick me up yea~~ Arligarto!! 

Anyway, Justine didn't know i am going so it is one surprise for her! =D

We then heading to Kaisin place and Justine still donno what is going on.. muahaha.. Maybe she half know laa... but still it's a SURPRISE!! 

When everyone is arrive then we start barbecue eat drink chat around... *I didnt take much picture la.. because everyone is too shy.. lol*

Another surprise here, our very long lost cute friend KOK XIAO QIAN suddenly appear while me and Justine were chatting.. *Jusjus, of course she will come laa! i just lie to u.. =P* 

Birthday cake is taken out by one of Justine's high school's best friend.. She came late because of working.. But yet Justine already very happy she can make it.. So here is another Surprise again! 

Another surprise about the birthday cake is it is bought by Kaisin's mum which means the future mother in law! *how sweet~~* <3

The Birthday Cake!!

The sweetest couple i ever met!

Justine's friend

 May your wish come true justine!! *Her first wish is to married to LKS!! hahaa.. wtf right? But i support u jusjus!! *

Is been a really long time that me, xiaoqian and Jus didnt had a chat... We use to chat every single day during foundation... gossip about others... making fool around.... but nothing can last forever.. T.T... So for me... i really appreciate every single chance that i could meet them!! 

The only picture of 3 of us on that day!! * we should have take more!!!*

Here is the funny one who did funny things again!! While people already get ready.. she suddenly shout and said : My hair very ugly!!!! hahaa...

Finally~~

Happy Birthday Justine!! 

N-Group Reunite!! 

The best group i ever had! 

High school Gang! 

Best friend~ =)

Jus and Qian

Sweet moment: 

I won't forget how Justine introduce herself at the first time during our first class in first semester. We are still stranger for the time being.. But one of her sentence shock me, she said : Hi everyone! My name is Justine Loh bla bla bla.. *forgot hows the structure be but at the end of the sentences she said no one is gonna recognized her at the end of the day.. i was like... wad kind of sad thing she has been through in her previous day.. haha...  

After while... we become friends.. the good one.. Our relationship has become way better than neither of us could aspect.. Even though she will always stick with her boy.. I use to tell her that don't so "confirm" about kaisin cause no one knows the future.. But no matter what me and XiaoQian said, she is really insist in her point of view.. And now... i find out that none of my friend has this kind of.... relationship anymore... their relationship ain't build on money, fame, popularity, power and what so ever... is just ... pure love~ So i really give all my bless to them and i want to become the bride's maid!!! haha.. 

One thing i quite touching about what she did is... when i told her and XQ that i have ended my relationship with someone, then she begin to cry in front of me... haha... thankyou lei... for crying with me... Is really warm for me at least at that moment being there is someone really understand my situation.. 

We have been through a lot... Those headache time for assignment.. Arguing with the love one.. and now we have move to another level of life.. The 3 of us, me XQ and Jus have been separated to different places now... but luckily for the most UN-independent one  (Jus)  got her guy besides her.. Because arr... she really donno what she want in the future... So is best if there are someone always besides to guide.. 

I donno how long could this friendship would last.. Because all of us are getting far apart.. But as long as it still exist... i will be here.. =) 

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Happy Birthday Justine!! <3 <3 <3