Jealousy

Jealousy is often occur especially between girls. No offence but for me i think is a fact that  guy would not care so much as girls does. I admit that i do always jealous about others but i'm trying very hard to avoid it and changed it to another way.

I'm pretty sure that jealousy normally generate in stuff like bags, cloths, shoes, accessories, bf/gf, appearance and many many more.. And I've always heard about my friends jealous about others life based on the pic in Facebook. Even i does *>.<''*

So... here is some of my suggestion~

Step 1

Don't judge one's life based on the pic even pic said thousand of words because nowadays pic could be easily edited with software. And most importantly sometimes we don't even know what is the story behind the pic. It could be involved many sad stories? Who knows?

What we see..

Behind the scene~

Step 2

Further more, avoid naive thinking that the people in the pic looks exactly same in the real life. Photoshop or other editing software has been widely used among the society. One of my friends use to jealous the skin or others but in fact, the pic has totally been edited. It looks completely different in the real life.

PS: not to said Photoshop is not good, but i am trying to said AVOID JEALOUSY based on pic!

And if you are people that easily got jealousy from FB, why don't you try not to sign in or deactivate it for a week or a month perhaps? Try it!! Who knows you will feel happier without FB? =)

Before and after makeup

Step 3 

Besides that, whenever you're in a jealous, try to think that there are actually people are more suffer than what you are facing. Appreciation should be enhanced in this moment being. People always used to jealous why others is better and bigger but why mine is smaller or sucks. Yet, they never really appreciate what they have.

One of the interview of Michelle Yeoh, she has said that if you don't love yourself and don't know what is your goal, there is no one or thing that can satisfy you. Thus, be appreciate and grateful about everything you have.

Step 4

Jealous in a right way! What does it means? well... jealousy normally causing yourself in a bad mood eventually. So why don't you jealous stuff like a good result in academic instead of she or he is using branded stuff?

**Think it in a right way > spending money on unnecessary stuff is easy and can be done by everyone whereas earning money and save it for investment or future used are something should be strongly encourage. Spending money is not hard at all, but how to earn, save and used it in a right way are more preferable for any individual.**

Like if you're jealous about why people are so talented can play so many instrument, why don't you try to learn it? Ok.. if you said that's expensive and not affordable, then try something cheap like guitar. There are dozens of tutorials teaching how to play. At the end of the story, jealousy has been successfully avoided! Jealous in a right way will create motivation and provide self improvement.


Last but not least, jealous will become a disease if we don't aware of it. It will also causes our life full of sadness and tear.. So, let it go.... Fight for the things that we want by our own! Jealousy is nothing more than a fear of abandonment.

Envy is the ulcer of soul!