Anyway, finally tons and tons of assignment is finally over.. Quite happy because all my effort and sleepless night has been paid off.. The only things to be focus now is EXAM!
But thats not the main thing of this post, just a little update...
So.. The story goes...
If you have read my blog before, i did one post about Jealousy. In that post, i am writing in a perspective as I am the one who get jealous and talking about ways to avoid it..
So now i'm gonna share some of my experience in a perspective of the one that get jealous by others..
Refer to the previous one, it sounds really like a loser to jealous of someone else. If you switch the position, try to think of what's the one that being jealous by others will feel? Will he or she feel sad? or happy instead?
Its true that jealousy is really hard to avoid, but what can you actually gain from there?
Something happened recently to make me realize that how fool am I before to jealous someone else which probably the things doesn't even looks like what it is.. and often putting on a fight or having an emotional day due to jealousy..
At the mean time, think about the people around you.. Let say if you argue with your family or boyfriend because of jealousy, they gonna have a bad day either due to your stupidness.. So don't spoiled your day as well as other's..
Since its the beginning of the new year now, we must grow wiser.. instead of finding ways to avoid jealousy, we resist it in the first place.. Why? Because it probably gonna make you looks stupid and weak..
Appreciate what you have even if its not perfect.. You will realize that.. Jealousy is really the most useless ingredient in your life..
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