Brave or Wait

I've actually wrote this months ago, but I didn't publish until now because I am still looking for a more comprehensive conclusion. But during the holidays, i've met up some friends and i realised that this topic that i wrote before are still an existing problem for others. So, i thought i could share this with you and lets figure out the problems together. Here we go.. 

Brave or Wait, two types of behaviour in relationship. 

Both of these behaviour share one similarity that is both the partners are still in love with each other during that break up moment. 

Brave,

both parties have the courage and belief that no matter what gonna happened or how worst the situation gonna be, they are not gonna let go each other easily. Regardless who's fault, or whether the love still exist or not. Indeed, in some situations we called it as stupid because we are just used to have each other around, but sometimes we called it as true love.

Wait,

relatively they do not persist as much as Brave could do. Letting go each other is they way of them choose to love. They provide relief and freedom. They have high potential to get back together if any one of them willing to take the first move at the specific moment, but in this category, they probably didn't insist on the first thought and let the fear and confusion to take over instead.

Both Brave or Wait can still lead to a happy ending or a sad ending at the end of the day. It doesn't mean that if you are brave enough, you guys can last. It also doesn't judge in a way that the longer you wait the smaller chance to get back together. Or it could be both leading to a happy or sad ending.

But what i am trying to emphasised today is people are often choosing only one of them. Have you ever think of mixing these two together? Things could be completely different if they have a little braveness and patient at the same time.

Most of the time we prefer both parties to have mutual understanding. So we could spend less effort on explaining stuff and have a relatively simpler process. But at that specific moment, how do you judge the so called "mutual understanding"? Most or partly of the decision are not made in a rational situation and the other one has took it so seriously which lead to a sad ending. 

Well.. it literally took months for me to figure out this conclusion. 

Again, regardless which type you've choose or you've been through, if you guys meant to be together, you will eventually meet each other again. Of course on the other hand, i strongly believe that if both partner are very in love with each other things will not messed up without a legit reason. And if it happened to be bad, it either means that one or both of you are not mature enough or.. just not love each other enough as you thought it was. Fact is pretty cruel isn't it? But after all, i think both of this situation are a little immature..  And i believe true love should not be broken that easy.. 

Good luck everyone!

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